Pregnancy Third Trimester Sexual Relationship

Pregnancy-sex-third-trimesterThis post is for men and for women a like, as both ask the same question ‘Is sex safe during the third trimester?” The third trimester is the most stressful trimester to the loving couple. Nearly six month have passed, and and the pregnancy is now close to it’s due date, parents-to-be fear that having sex during pregnancy last trimester can cause unwanted side effects to the pregnant mother or the baby inside her. In this short review you can read and learn about have sexual intercourse during pregnancy third trimester.

Keep Sexual Communication During Pregnancy

It is important to keep the sexual relationship communication levels high during the pregnancy month. There are many pregnancy physical changes which have impact the pregnant woman like body changes, nausea, vomiting, low self esteem, bleeding, gaining weight, breast tenderness, fatigue and others which can cause the idea of sexual intercourse seem a very bad idea.

There are also psychological effects on the father to-be, his lovely beautiful woman is changing, having moods, and some men have problem being attracted to their woman once she is observed as a ‘mother’.

It is expected that the sexual desire will decrease during the first trimester, mainly because of the early pregnancy signs and symptoms, mentioned above. The expecting parents may feel some increase in their sex drive at the second trimester, because most of the symptoms would be over, and the self confidence usually increases too.

Most couples worry about third trimester sexual behavior and fear that having sex during the last weeks of the pregnancy, may harm the baby and pose risks or cause pre-term labor.

Pregnancy Third Trimester Sex Myths

There are quite a lot of women who would share with other women that having sexual intercourse close to the due labor day, can cause early labor. Another myth is that men’s sperm can cause contractions, and women’s orgasm can cause pre-term labor.

All of these myth are researched tales.

If the pregnancy is regular and healthy, than there is no risk or danger to the mother or the baby in having sexual intercourse during third trimester. The fetus is safe and sound in the amniotic sac, cushioned by fluids it flouts safely. The fetus is so safe inside that not the semen, nor orgasm can cause any harm to it.

During a women orgasm, the small contractions felt are different kind of contractions than associated with labor.

When Sex Is Not Recommended During Pregnancy

There is a short list of cases when sex is not recommended or even dangerous to the mother and baby. The rule of thumb should be ASK YOUR DOCTOR! You should refrain from sexual penetrative intercourse when:

  • When there have been a family history or threat of miscarriage, or premature birth.
  • Also when there are unexplained vaginal bleeding, discharge, or cramping.
  • When having twins or triplets.
  • When feeling pain or bleeding during intercourse.

Except for these there are more medical cases in which intercourse is not recommended during late pregnancy weeks. One other point to take to consideration, is the fact that the women can not conceive, does not mean that the ‘sex is safe’. Sexual transmitted diseases can threat both the women and men, so when having sex with a person which sexual history is unclear, make sure you protect yourself against STD !

Comfortable Positions For Pregnancy Last Weeks

The main problem expecting couples meet when making love, is that the ‘missionary position’ face-to-face where the man is on top, is uncomfortable to both sides because of the large abdominal.

Most couples prefer the intercourse from behind, in order to enjoy this position fully, an assisting ‘Pregnancy pillow’ is needed. These pillows are designed to hold body weight, and can provide sufficient support when one partner is more heavy. These pillows are also fun to cuddle at night and are comfortable for better night sleep for pregnant women.

Another popular position would be the ’spoons’ or side-to-side as in this position there is no weight on the pregnant women abdominal.

The most comfortable position for pregnant women is the ‘woman on top’, as the woman has more control over the penetration and she can manage her own pace.

When it comes to having a rich sex life at the last weeks of the third trimester, there are always other fun ways to show mutual embrace and love. Using oral sex, and love toys can spark the love relations between the expecting couple, when the intercourse is uncomfortable.

Conclusion

The best advise is to relax and do what’s feels good for you and your partner. It is completely safe to have sex during pregnancy third trimester (as long as the pregnancy is healthy and normal). There might be some position ‘adjustments’ needed, when new ‘love accessories’ are purchased they will be useful after the baby will arrive, and there will be sleepless nights. So have fun while you can.

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